Comment punir le _xxinyi413 de l'enfant

Cat��gories : Classic Digest ' peine peut ��tre un comportement positif, survie chez les enfants au moyen de la communaut�� dans le processus, laissez vos enfants �� apprendre des choses. Therefore, the punishment of children with the punishment of violation of Community legislation in the community for adults, there should be the essential difference. Punishing children should remember that five principles: , punishing the children when, first of all, be sure to pay attention to respect the independent personality of children, protecting the child's confidence and self-esteem. Good is good and wrong is wrong, don't make a hundred mistakes, total negation. Even "take the wrong step, the full set all bets are off", but also to highlight the wrong key, you cannot let the children's mental collapse. Second, the purpose of punishment is to warn the children what not to do, what did happen. Is not to punish the child and punishing children, but to punish children for the children. in other words, the means of punishment is, is the purpose of education. Therefore, in some cases, if you do not punish kids when you can let your children know what not to do, since the purpose of educating children to achieve, and may also want to consider not punishing children. ���˰��������ͷ����������� Educator is said to Mr Tao xingzhi while serving as an elementary school principal, seeing a student's mud thrown another classmate, stopped him and asked him to go to the Office after school. After school, Mr Tao came to the Office, the student has already waiting there. Not criticizing him, but took a candy to him, saying: "you arrived, I was late, prizes for you. ��ѧ���ɲ����ؽӹ� then pulled out a candy, said: "I stopped you with mud block striker, you immediately stop, I should reward you. ��ѧ���ɻ���ֵؽӹ� also took third candy, said: "as far as I know, mud thrown for you guys, because they bully girls. This means you have a sense, this sugar is also a prize for you. " at this time, students ' excitement shed tears and said," President, I am wrong, I screw up is not a bad guy, is its own classmate sth "Mr Tao smiled and took the fourth candy:" candy for you, because you know your own mistakes. Well, my candy to the finished, our conversation is finished. " Mr Tao this" punishment "will let your child forever memorable! c tells kids: parents and teachers are mortal, fallible. Parents and teachers to make mistakes is equally subject to punishment. In a traditional family, child 100% is being punished. Because the child is born "educated", while the parent is a natural "educators". This concept is obviously a problem. in one family, the parents may also make a mistake, correct principles should be "breaking the law and the Emperor Shumin." In many cases, parents punish their own mistakes, will play for the kids to the immeasurable "correction" function. Dr alaixiou on the kitchen wall, hanging a little house made of wood. Wai hung next to the six only is also made of wood and lovely dog, every little dog who was writing his name: father, mother, Jerzy Buzek, and Jessica, and Cody, and airuika. Dr alaixiou tell me, who made a mistake, little dog who lived in a small kennel with impunity. Both father and mother, who was no exception. If they feel that they recognize errors, can that little dog on their behalf from the moving out of the House. four, everyone makes mistakes, but not who will correct the error. Punishment does not matter, the thing is to correct the error. Key is not a punishment, but rather accept the lesson, to correct the error. to let your child know, admit mistakes is not a shameful thing. The courage to admit mistakes is an important life lesson. United States: "one does not say ' I'm sorry man, not a real man. ���й��Ļ��ܿ��ء����ӡ��� Lost "face" is really can't let people tolerate things. Love the "face", refers to the care of their honour, take good care of their good fame, that's for sure is a good thing. But for the love of "face" and act the part of, or to their senses, it is very bad. Admit mistakes in order to correct mistakes; recognition errors, also to be respected by others. five, so the children can be treated with an open heart to punish. Now that made a mistake, since there is an express provision of penalties, now that the punishment is inevitable, it is necessary to treat punished with an open heart. Say, this is respect for the rule of human society; had to say, is to abide by the "rules of the game", there are no rules, "game" can't play any longer. such as football, has violated, even by penalties, but also pretty well treated. Not satisfied with, don't foul; to avoid punishment, it is necessary to avoid foul; any gauge, you must accept the punishment. however, to avoid the "obtain a confession by means of torture", but also to avoid punishment finished, children did not acknowledge the error. Children do not recognize the error, the penalties did not play a role. Admit mistakes in order to correct mistakes; recognition errors in order to be respected by others. Ȼ����ν�ijͷ�������Si chinois ou American destruction du chatiment corporel d'enfants psychologie et certainement ne pas battre! l'importance de ces cinq principes est que les actes de punition devient une action positive et significative, plut?t que d'une passive, r��active, ? fire brigade ?. pour vous donner une chance, je suis un miracle.